Liar! Liar! Liar!
Is it ever right to lie?
The quick pietistic answer is, of course, no! The Ten Commandments forbid it. End of story.
But is biblical morality really that easy? If it were, what about all those stories in the Old Testament that make us a little squeemish. Rahab lies to the king of her Canaanite city so that the Israelite spies can escape. Is she stoned to death? Reprimanded by the Lord? Send to bed with no TV? Quite the opposite. Not only does she alone (with her family) escape the destruction of the city, but she becomes one of the ancestors of Israel’s Messiah.
And how about those spies sent into Canaan? A spy is someone who disguises himself to appear to be a native. Isn’t that a kind of lie? Why didn’t those guys have to make restitution to the poor Canaanites?
Now even your most fully-starched Sunday School teacher would admit that those must’ve been OK, little white lies that God overlooked. But let me muddy the carpet a bit.
Remember this story about Abraham, the Father of Faith?
From there Abraham journeyed toward the territory of the Negeb and lived between Kadesh and Shur; and he sojourned in Gerar. 2 And Abraham said of Sarah his wife, “She is my sister.†And Abimelech king of Gerar sent and took Sarah. 3 But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night and said to him, “Behold, you are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a man’s wife.†4 Now Abimelech had not approached her. So he said, “Lord, will you kill an innocent people? 5 Did he not himself say to me, ‘She is my sister’? And she herself said, ‘He is my brother.’ In the integrity of my heart and the innocence of my hands I have done this.†6 Then God said to him in the dream, “Yes, I know that you have done this in the integrity of your heart, and it was I who kept you from sinning against me. Therefore I did not let you touch her. 7 Now then, return the man’s wife, for he is a prophet, so that he will pray for you, and you shall live. But if you do not return her, know that you shall surely die, you, and all who are yours.â€
8 So Abimelech rose early in the morning and called all his servants and told them all these things. And the men were very much afraid. 9 Then Abimelech called Abraham and said to him, “What have you done to us? And how have I sinned against you, that you have brought on me and my kingdom a great sin? You have done to me things that ought not to be done.†10 And Abimelech said to Abraham, “What did you see, that you did this thing?†11 Abraham said, “I did it because I thought, There is no fear of God at all in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife. 12 Besides, she is indeed my sister, the daughter of my father though not the daughter of my mother, and she became my wife. 13 And when God caused me to wander from my father’s house, I said to her, ‘This is the kindness you must do me: at every place to which we come, say of me, He is my brother.’â€
14 Then Abimelech took sheep and oxen, and male servants and female servants, and gave them to Abraham, and returned Sarah his wife to him. 15 And Abimelech said, “Behold, my land is before you; dwell where it pleases you.†16 To Sarah he said, “Behold, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver. It is a sign of your innocence in the eyes of all [1] who are with you, and before everyone you are vindicated.†17 Then Abraham prayed to God, and God healed Abimelech, and also healed his wife and female slaves so that they bore children. 18 For the Lord had closed all the wombs of the house of Abimelech because of Sarah, Abraham’s wife. [Genesis 20 ESV]
So what were we taught in Sunday School (if this “nasty” passage weren’t skipped altogether)? Abraham had a failure of character and didn’t trust God, right? But how does the Bible evaluate what happened? Is Abraham anywhere condemned or corrected for what he did? Is he punished? No. Who is corrected and punished? Abimilech. Whom did God ask to pray for Abimilech’s healing? Abraham. What’s wrong with this picture? What would your Sunday School teacher say?
Is it possible that we’ve had the picture all wrong, that this wasn’t meant to be a Sunday School morality play about Abraham failing to trust God? Could it be that what we actually have here is a godless pagan king whom God decides to catch in his own wickedness (the desire to seize another man’s wife) and who then has to humble himself to ask for prayer from a foreign sojourner?
The commandment is clear: You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor (Exodus 20:16). But who is my neighbor? Didn’t Jesus show in the parable of the Good Samaritan that everyone is my neighbor? If so, then why wasn’t Abimelech Abraham’s neighbor? Why wasn’t the king of Jericho Rahab’s neighbor? Why weren’t the Canaanites Israel’s neigbor?
Perhaps, if I’m not totally off base here, these stories are there to enable us to apply the commandments with wisdom. Was it sinful for Christians in Europe to lie to Nazis about the Jews hidden in their homes? False pietism would say yes, and smile self-righteously as the Jews were led away to their deaths. Biblical wisdom would have an eye on Rahab and Abraham (and two fingers crossed behind its back
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February 1st, 2005 at 8:39 pm
You could also add the Hebrew midwives from Exodus or David deceiving the Philistines by pretending to be insane.
February 1st, 2005 at 9:23 pm
Good additions, Josiah. I wasn’t trying to include all the possible examples; I knew there were more.
February 1st, 2005 at 10:07 pm
From a post in the RumorForum, here.
I’m going to try for a different perspective since we’re going to really try to work this out. The moral law that we find in ourselves is a law that tells us (1) how we should behave personally and (2) how we should behave socially.
From this moral law we also have expectations that, just as we are to behave, others are to behave as well.
So I should not lie because even in my sinfulness I have nothing I can hide from God nor, utlimately, nothing to gain from hiding it.
Now, what about lying to my neighbor? Well, just as I have nothing I can hide from God — nor should I have something to hide from God — I should also have nothing to hide from my neighbor. Why? Chiefly because, should I have sinned against my nieghbor, I should make my confession and restitution. But that’s the real clincher, isn’t it? In being honest with my neighbor, I am expecting likewise good, clear moral behavior from him.
So now we’re in the situation of the likes of Nazi Germany and Nazi’s are hunting for my Jewish friends that I know are in hiding. They ask me: “Do you know where these Jews are?”
If I lie to them, I unquestionably burden myself with the offense of lying. However, with all things, the substance of the action is never the offense — it is just the sign of the offense. The real offense is the motivation behind the action. And the reasons for burdening myself with lying far outweighs the fallout from being honest.
Lets consider what being honest brings us:
(1) It will lead to Nazi’s unjustly arresting innocent Jews — I thought we finished that with Jesus after all
(2) It will lead to the Nazi’s mistreating the Jews — again, Jesus, been there, done that.
(3) It will more than likely lead to the Nazi’s killing innocent Jews — need I bother?
Lying, in this case, is absolutely about trusting God. I trust that God has given me the moral wisdom to understand my actions and their fruit. Lying in this case is about brotherly accountability and remembering Jesus, not just in the Jews but also gypsies and any other ethnic/cultural group. I am doing my part to keep the Nazi’s from stumbling/sin, and I am honoring and defending the poor and oppressed.
We do not “turn the other cheek” or “give our shirt” or “walk an extra mile” because we’re told to do so. We do those things because we are to be fully accountable to our brothers in humanity. Lying, in this case, is no different. In doing all these things, we bear witness to Jesus’s ministry.
February 2nd, 2005 at 11:49 am
Also, if the Jews came to your house and asked “Will you hide us?” if you say “Yes” then turn them over to the first Nazi who comes along, then you were lying to the Jews. You were only giving them a place to stay until the Nazis came; you weren’t hiding them. The ‘honest at all costs person’ would more likely say “You can stay here, but I’ll not lie for you.”
Just an extra little bit there…
February 2nd, 2005 at 12:47 pm
That would be “In all Christian love I’ll not lie for you” of course.
February 4th, 2005 at 10:45 am
Natch’